Relationships tend to be complicated, especially in this day and age where people find it difficult to connect with one another due to the constant overload of phones and apps making people more unsociable in person than ever before. This has led to a growing problem for a lot of young men to find and build meaningful relationships where both they aswell the other person can grow. This is why we live in a society with a lot of men who are single and dissatisfied with themselves, which paradoxically further compounds the problem, as no one wants someone who is bitter and jaded.
Dating in the 21st Century
This is a time which is all about fast love, men and women mingling at bars, clubs or hooking up from dating apps. It is what it is.
The time for meaningful relationships seems to be coming to an end as more and more people see the wide variety of options that they have. It’s not really all fun and games for everyone.
Many young men who are insecure feel that they are unable to participate in the game of dating due to the expectations set by society on how to look and how to think or what sort of personality to have.
This is why modern society and modern dating, in general, are so toxic to young men and women. The current landscape of dating is said to be so toxic that, in many ways, a significant number of relationships don’t last because why try to make it work out when you can find someone else and potentially someone better?
How to navigate the dating market?
It’s not easy to go through a world of people who seem shallow, cold and superficial. This is particularly intimidating for young men who are new to the dating world and see that it’s filled with people who only care about their appearance or the size of their wallet rather than what their personality actually is.
A world that seems to actively hate and oppose them rather than be empathetic and understanding towards their personal problems. Young men need to first work on themselves in every single way, their appearance, their personalities as well as their finances to secure a partner.
The game is cold and isolating, but that is the very essence of what it means to be a man in the world. Men have always lowest chances of reproduction compared to their female counterparts, who hold the key to life. Men are inherently disposable and require something unique and special about them to achieve true value in society. Seniors looking for a relationship understand this truth much better than their younger counterparts.
What Age Do Guys Start Looking For A Serious Relationship?
As discussed earlier, it’s not an easy dating market for young men, especially due to the rise of dating apps and the consumer culture towards dating as viewing human beings as objects to obtain rather than a way to find long-lasting companionship that builds up.
Due to the aforementioned reasons, many men are late bloomers who date later on in life, such as in their early to mid-twenties, when they start growing into who they are as people. At this age range, men are relatively more secure with themselves than they were when they were younger. They are capable of handling rejection (not always) more securely and can be a potentially good match for their partners. This is also the age where men have worked on themselves to some extent, have a good job and also take care of their physical appearance.
Younger men tend to be very uncertain about themselves, not always, but mostly. This is why younger men are so depressed and insecure. They see social media showing them pictures of perfectly groomed, good-looking men getting all the attention of the ladies and generally living their best lives. Young women also hold much more value in society than their male counterparts. This is usually the age where they are at their most attractive because society emphasizes female youth and beauty far more; a man can be attractive up till his 30s even. What age do guys start looking for a serious relationship? The age where they are ready to do so.
Conclusion
Young men need to make it a mission to work on themselves, to constantly be improving to face the world with fearlessness. It’s imperative that men start working on themselves from an early age. The sooner they start, the easier the journey to life and happiness will be.